May the LORD have mercy on us. How can a married man who is not faithful to his wife kill a side chick or mistress for being unfaithful to him? How can a cheating husband demand faithfulness from a girlfriend he has been cheating with?
A peace officer entrusted with a gun to protect its citizens uses the same gun to take the citizen’s life? And many people see nothing wrong with this man and justify his action? This shows how tribal we are as human beings. Just as God knows his own, the devil also knows his own, and the mentally ill know their own. People support or associate with those they have something in common with.
In line with my work, I have met a number of married men who were brokenhearted by their girlfriends or mistresses and not their wives. What this simply confirms is that a man reaps what he sows. You cannot sow corn and harvest cassava. You cannot give your wife a broken heart and not get a broken heart from your mistress; you cannot cheat on your spouse with a side chick or side cock, and not be cheated on by a side chick or side cock.
For the people defending the guy who killed the girlfriend in Kumasi, who is allegedly emerging as a married man with kids and a police officer, bear in mind that if you bless someone, you will be blessed, just as if you destroy a life, your life will be destroyed.
Why is he on the run after killing the lady? Once he is arrested, he has no life, no freedom, no peace, and no future. He won’t be able to work and earn money to spend on a side chick. He will be confined to a small corner of a cell with other criminals. He has no luxury of sleep; he will have no option but to eat the food he has not given to his dog before.
His movement will be restricted and controlled, He will remain in jail for years before his trial, and he is likely to go to jail for life. Now tell me, who in his right-thinking state of mind will do this to himself?
No amount of investment or money is equal to the life of a human. If you find out someone is trying to outsmart you in the name of love or a relationship, let the person know you are wiser by breaking up the relationship. If you believe they have taken advantage of you, take them to court and let the law deal with them.
To those using relationships to rob others of their hard-earned resources, keep this in mind: “The iniquities done by a wicked man will trap him, and he will be held with the cords of his sin.” Proverbs 5:22 (AMP).
Source:Frank Edem Adofoli (Counselor Adofoli)
Counselor, ADR Practitioner, Conference Speaker, Author
CEO, The Marriage Consult LTD.
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